Kirsten Bliven has been with the Advocacy and Resource for just over two years. During her time with the agency she’s worked both relief and full-time positions. Kirsten currently works at our Peru IRA, but is in the process of transferring back to our Orchard Way residence, a place that holds a special spot in her heart.
Kirsten was referred to the ARC by a friend. Having previously worked as a camp counselor and in retail, working in direct care was a new experience for Kirsten.
“I never would have chosen this on my own. This has been a nice surprise of a job,” Kirsten said.
When describing her role to someone who’s never worked in direct care, Kirsten notes that she works in the homes of the people she supports. “It’s their house,” she said. The best comparison she can make is to being a “supportive friend.”
“All jobs have responsibilities, but this is people’s lives.”
Of all the skills that she’s gained in her role, Kirsten herself is most surprised by how much she’s taken to the healthcare side of her job.
“All of the medical aspects, blood pressure and blood sugar checks, bolus feeds and giving medications through a G-tube, I used to think I couldn’t work in healthcare, but I’m comfortable here.”
Through all the serious aspects of her job, Kirsten also appreciates the fun moments. Spending time with the people she supports, listening to music, dancing, singing and finding ways to make their days a little better are some of her favorite parts of the job.
At the same time, Kirsten knows the work can be difficult. This job can be physically and emotionally draining, especially as staff build close relationships with the people they support.
“You get attached to the people we support, when you see them decline in health, it’s tough.”
Kirsten credits Daphne Gricoski and Jenn Toohill for being supportive mentors to herself and other staff, especially at Orchard Way.
Even on tough days, Kirsten’s known for having a positive attitude.
“I don’t dress like it, but I picture myself as a ray of sunshine, I hope I make peoples’ days a little bit better,” said Kirsten.
A self-proclaimed girly-girl, who loves all things pink, Kirsten dreamed of being a fashion designer when she was 12. When asked what her 12 year old self would think about where she is today, Kirsten said, “I never pictured myself in this field or healthcare. I’m proud of myself.”
Outside of work, Kirsten is an avid concertgoer. She recently saw Harry Stiles (for the 4th time) at Madison Square Garden. Some of her other favorite concert experiences include Five Seconds of Summer, The Weekend, Tyler the Creator, along with a trip to Osheaga music festival. Montreal has become Kirsten’s go to spot for entertainment and exploring the city’s food and culture.
Given how much Kirsten loves music, it makes sense that if she could learn one skill instantly, she would want to play the drums, or any instrument. As someone who loves to sing, hand her a microphone at karaoke and she’s likely to choose an Adele song, “for the drama.”
There are two things that Kirsten needs to make it through her workdays – Dunkin’ Pink Lemonade Refreshers and string cheese.
Kirsten feels very fortunate to be in the position she’s in. When asked what advice she’d give to someone thinking about starting their career as a DSP, she has a clear message: give it a chance.
“All change is hard at first, just give it a chance,” she said. “At first, it can be a lot. It’s intimidating, but once you’re comfortable and know the routine, it’s great.”
